I got married a week ago – but my husband’s behavior is pushing me towards an annulment

She will love him until the day he lies

A newlywed is considering jumping ship a week after tying the knot because of her husband’s cheating behavior during the wedding.

“Overall, his family seemed to prioritize their own interests and needs over what was best for us as a couple,” the 25-year-old newlywed said in a now-deleted Reddit post.

She explained that the problems began during the “rehearsal dinner” at a venue owned by her parents, who she said gave her future father-in-law permission to host the pre-wedding festivities, People reported.

Due to a communication problem, the bride claimed that the groom’s parents mistakenly thought they could use the bouquets arranged by the bride’s family florist.

When someone informed them they would have to pay $400, the in-laws kicked up a stink at the rehearsal dinner, which left the bride “deeply embarrassed”.

“During dinner, his parents made loud comments to me and my husband that we didn’t know they had to pay for the flowers, clearly within earshot of my parents,” she recalls. “Behaving in the middle of dinner created unnecessary tension and made me feel uncomfortable when we were supposed to be enjoying the evening.”

Things took a turn for the worse during the wedding, when the woman’s in-laws ignored the agreed-upon photo schedule and demanded additional portraits behind her back, bleeding at the appointed time for the bride’s photo-op, People reported.

When the Redditor opened up about these concerns with her boyfriend, he dismissed them as no big deal.

Then, 15 minutes before the ceremony, the bride was informed that the groom’s 15-year-old sister would be giving a speech even though the speeches were supposed to have taken place in rehearsal – another imposition that her other half didn’t seem too concerned about. .

The sibling’s request seemed particularly brazen considering the groom claimed to have briefed his sister on the speech policy.

Only later did she learn that her “husband]had lied by telling his sister to give her speech in rehearsal. [instead of the wedding].”

Despite the fury of the marriage breakdown, the bride texted the groom telling him not to discuss the matter with his parents, only for him to ignore her and inform them anyway.

It is said that this was the last straw and the bride felt like she had to call off the wedding.

When she floated the idea to her fellow Redditors, many claimed she was overreacting.

“Cancellations are for when you find out he has a secret family in England, not because your wedding didn’t go as planned,” one said.

“You’re turning the small administrative stuff of a wedding into a character flaw,” charged another. “You can call off your wedding and say your husband doesn’t even care about you, but the little things like speeches at a wedding, pictures taken at a wedding and flowers at a wedding are over. What about your whole dating life??”

They added, “How did we get here that we’re basing a major life decision on the behavior of the in-laws on the wedding day instead of a perfectly whole relationship that we’ve had outside of a wedding day?”

“That’s just general wedding stress – nothing unusual about it,” said a third. “I feel like if you’re already willing to give up, maybe you weren’t that invested in the first place.”